OWN A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON You have to free yourself! Don’t wait for someone else to do it for you. Not even your God or your Jesus! I’ve learned a valuable lesson: the seeds to my future are planted in my present. In fact, when I finally felt free…
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GO TO SOPHIA SHOP TO GET YOURS! I love this image of Sophia I call “BlackSheep”. She dares to be different. She dares to stand apart. She dares to be herself. She dares to offend. She dares to be free. How about you? TODAY’s the LAST DAY! No of the…
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BUY A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON Why do we hide our pain? Here are just a few: 1. We are ashamed because we think it makes us look weak. 2. We don’t want people to think we aren’t getting over it fast enough. 3. We don’t want to be a…
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BUY A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON The Deconstruction of Your Beliefs and Your Marriage One of the most difficult challenges I ever undertook was to deconstruct my beliefs and stay married. Honestly, there were many times Lisa and I didn’t think we were going to make it. But we did.…
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GET YOUR FAVORITE SOPHIA TODAY!Use coupon “BEAUTIFUL” for 50% OFFAn online friend of mine has cancer. We’ve chatted back and forth. I know Sophia has brought liberty as well as comfort to a lot of people. Especially women. I told her I wanted to send her something, so I’m sending…
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GET A PRINT OF THIS CARTOON When we leave the church, one of the hardest things to do is build new relationships. Because you will probably lose most if not all of the friends you had. I’ve been through it, learned a lot, and want to share some advice with…
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I was fortunate to find churches in which I felt I had room to change and grow. However, inevitably, I discovered that I would change and grow beyond the box of their comfort zone. When you change, so do your relationships. You may lose friends. You may even lose family.…
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In spite of the protests I get nearly every day that my focus on abuse in the church is unbalanced and unnecessary because it’s so rare, I continue to address it because millions of people are recipients of spiritual abuse at the hands of their spiritual leaders and their churches.…
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My posts about spiritual abuse often get reactions from people claiming that I’m needlessly and bitterly highlighting an infrequent and isolated problem in the church. They are usually angry and defensive. They say things like: “You’re crying out like a wounded animal! Get over your bitterness.” “How dare you attack…
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(I drew this cartoon, originally, way back in 2010. I saw a picture of a Burning Man installation that I think used this idea. Prints are available.) The following is a letter I wrote to my online community, The Lasting Supper. I get way more vulnerable and personal with them,…
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