Idolatry and the Sublimation of Self

The root word of sublimation is sublime. It refers to the process of making something gross into something more sublime.

Scientifically, sublimation refers to the process of transition of a substance from the solid phase to the gas phase without passing through an intermediate liquid phase.

In psychology, sublimation is when socially unacceptable impulses are consciously transformed into socially acceptable behavior which serves a higher cultural or socially useful purpose.

I suggest that in religion, sublimation refers to the transformation of natural human impulses and needs into religious activities that serve the interests of the institution.

I recently had a conversation with a young man. I asked how he was doing. He said he was going through stuff right now but that he was alright. I invited him to share what he was going through. He had just been dismissed from the staff of a large church. He and his wife and children were shocked to discover that he was made redundant by the church leadership and was suddenly unemployed and in quite desperate shape financially and vocationally. I said something like, “Wow!” He countered, “No, no! It’s okay. I understand. I questioned some things. I guess the pastor figured I wasn’t as on board as he wanted so he had me dismissed. Makes sense.” I felt angry for him. I had been through that kind of thing more than once, and I knew the pain of it very well. I told him, “No way! That’s not right. I’d be angry about that. I hate that when churches punish you for not being 100% with the program!” We talked for quite a while. I don’t think we parted in agreement.

This happens all the time. Not just to staff but to members. It has happened to me several times. So I know it must be happening many times a day.

This is idolatry. When you don’t serve the idol in whatever shape it manifests itself, when you don’t submit to it with complete and unquestioning loyalty, when you are not fully sold out to it, when you don’t transform your natural human self into useful religious energy and activity, then you are rejected by the idol, its vision and its authorities. Religion sacrifices the human spirit and peoples’ lives to its sublime agenda.

Whether this has its place in some corporations, businesses, organizations and institutions, is one thing. But it is counter-spiritual in the church because it is primarily against the human being. It is so prevalent in this world that when it happens in the church very few question it, even when they are direct victims of it. Rather than the church being a fellowship of sinners, normal human beings gathered in voluntary community, it has become the alchemical locus for cooking people into something more desirable, productive, fertile and useful to the religious program. And like all idols, it is hungry for more and more human flesh in order to consume it and transmute it into the security and promotion of its own life.

  • Jenny Lowen

    So true. It does no-one any favours to deceive yourself into feeling better, because those feelings are based on a lie. Far better to admit the truth and work through the pain etc than to gloss over it and defend and excuse the offender’s actions.

  • http://rallyingcos.wordpress.com MLE

    Oh, my gosh. Thank you. I’ve been trying to point this out to people in my family and in my church especially recently. It’s always met with resistance and words of caution.

    It’s ever baffling to me how members can proudly say, “Look how much we didn’t get back then,” with the implication that we’ve got everything right now. Of course, they’d never say that, but any questioning of the institutional church or church leadership makes for an extremely awkward moment. Recently, I was in a class-like setting in discussion with older members of my local congregation. They were speaking along these lines of how far we’ve come, etc. and I chimed in with my observation. As the sole younger member in a group of older members, I rhetorically asked, “I wonder what it’ll be like for people of my generation when we’re older. What are we getting wrong now (perhaps that we can’t even see) that we’ll look back and go, “Wow, what were we thinking?” It wasn’t taken well.

    A few years back, my husband was working in a full-time church position. He and I decided that, due to our moral and ethical objections to several aspects of the whole situation, he couldn’t continue in that role. We know that decision has cost him another church job–a cost of our discipleship, I guess.

    We’ve also had to deal, as I’m sure many have, with the unspoken, and occasionally spoken, rule that we really shouldn’t discuss these things when they happen. They’re like the “illegitimate children”, if I may. We know they are there and that this happens all the time, but talking about it gives it credibility and means that the more trusting and naive members might be confronted with some cold, hard realities.

    As a denomination, we are prone to church celebrity worship. I take issue with the idea that it is known, implicitly and explicitly, that the church’s (whatever denomination) actions are in alignment with the will of God. We’re always on God’s side. It gives far too much weight and credibility to the decisions and actions of the denomination’s leadership.

    I’m sorry this is so long. I don’t ever post comments this length.

  • http://nakedpastor.com nakedpastor

    thanks jenny. i agree 100%

  • http://nakedpastor.com nakedpastor

    not too long, and excellent!

  • http://theoldadam.wordpress.com Steve Martin

    Idolatry is what we do.

  • Cathy

    Well said, and so true.

  • http://societyvs.wordpress.com/ Societyvs

    Church as idol replacing God, I get it!

  • Ant

    Hey David, loved this blog, your mention of “church being a fellowship of sinners” reminded me of my thinking being turned away from the concept of original sin and towards original blessing. I have been reading “Saving Jesus from the Church” by Robin R Meyers where he makes a case against original sin on the basis that it doesnt do us much good in terms of our self esteem to think of ourselves as poor worthless sinners all the time whether consciously or subconsciously. I thought this was an excellent device to keep people coming back to church via the guilt associated with being a sinner. Sure we all make mistakes but we are all capable of good too. I also recently read a different of sin. Apparently its root means to miss the mark as an archer would and that to sin was to not be skillful as an archer and that for us not to sin is to live our life skillfully and that to do less than this is sin. Even so I dont beat myself up when I make mistakes and dont live to my fullest potential. I am finding a more positive self in me and I am much happier living without all the guilt and thinking I deserved it in one way or another. I still get that guilt at times – still working thru that but I will get there. After all God created man in his own image and said it was good – original blessing :-)

  • http://nakedpastor.com nakedpastor

    well said Ant. thanks for that balanced perspective.