worship as denial?

Last Sunday this was part of my text: “In the Lord I take refuge; how can you say to me, ‘Flee like a bird to the mountains… If the foundations are destroyed, what can the righteous do?” (Psalm 11). I tried to explain that, when things really go wrong (“the foundations are destroyed”), sometimes we are tempted to flee, to employ different forms of denial and escape. I said that the mountains we sometimes escape to are not always conventional… alcohol, drugs, psychosis, shopping, etc. I suggested that the mountains could also represent escaping into a book of lofty ideas, or a movie of high-paced action, or sometimes even hyper-religiosity and an other-worldly spirituality. I said that even using worship music can sometimes be used to escape the harsh realities of life.

That created a reaction… what I said about worship being used as an escape or a form of denial. I know that’s been true for me. I know that’s been true for others. But to say it so bluntly aroused a response I didn’t expect. I emphasized, I thought, that worship in itself isn’t wrong. But sometimes we use it wrongly. This is true for anything. Anything at all! But to use “worship” as an example confused some people. I know some of the problem is that I’m often not very clear. But I also think that sometimes we react to harsh truths. It offends our religious sensitivities to suggest that sometimes our worship may be a form of denial.

Here’s a graphic example: I know a person who visited a very poor church. The congregation was made up of people all living in poverty. The pastor embraced a “health/ wealth” theology, i.e. that God wants you to be financially rich. He lead the beleaguered congregation in a song that is normally worded, “Mercy is falling, is falling, is falling, mercy is falling all over me”; but the words were changed to say, “Money is falling, is falling, is falling, money is falling all over me!” This really happened. This really happens. I think this is a blatant form of denial, an escape from the harsh realities of their situation.

  • Chad

    I hear you, Dave. As a worship leader I struggle with that question over and over – do I really believe what I’m singing right now? Does my life reflect it? If I’m honest, the answer is no a whole lot more than I’d like.

    I think spiritual escapism happens when we stop looking to God and instead start looking for his “benefits”, like the latest book on the latest prayer trend by the latest guru that will fix our lives, or the bucket of money that will fall from the sky as we sing (Man, stories like that one you just told make my skin crawl!)

    But I think worship can be an “escape” in a good way, too – not as a denial, but an affirmation that the present reality, as lousy as it may be, isn’t the be-all, end-all. It always moves me when I’m standing at my keyboard and watching someone who I know is struggling – like a single mom who can barely make ends meet and is constantly getting grief from her teenage sons – just pour herself out in worship with a beautiful smile on her face. Her problems will still be there when the song is over, but for a few minutes it’s just her and God and she’s tangibly reminded that He’s bigger than life. That, to me, is one of the most beautiful things about worship.

  • Brian M

    I think your graphic example is a blatant form of something but I won’t say what so your censor doesn’t delet this post as well.

    I’m with Chad, anything can become an escape but sometimes we truly need an escape, even for a moment or a season, and worship can take us into a place where everything gets melted away – and sometimes it doesn’t all come back.

    I think ‘denial’ and ‘escape’ are sometimes the same, but not always. I know sometimes when I sing a song in worship I’m singing in faith – sort of like the psalmist singing to himself – why are you downcast o my soul? Sometimes we need to sing about where we want to be, not just where we are.

  • http://churchpundit.com David Hayward

    Chad and Brian: YES! That’s what I mean! I wasn’t clear enough or wasn’t understood enough in saying that worship doesn’t mean we can’t worship when things are bad or that wouldn’t be honest. To use worship to avoid suffering is escape. That’s what I mean. But to worship, thereby causing a disruption in our normal way of seeing things, that isn’t escape.

  • http://churchpundit.com David Hayward

    By the way, that “censor” above is totally a hoax on my part.